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Apparently some psychologists have gone off the deep end, and may require some psychotherapy of their own. They now claim cuckolding can be good for some relationships. This kind of thing is beyond my understanding. Perhaps I've been fortunate enough to have a loving marriage, we make sacrifices for each other; but I can honestly claim that I am happily married. The thought of my wife engaging in sexual relations with some other man is abhorrent to me, it would immediately end our relationship. My wife thinks the same way, she would leave if I had relations with some other woman. Are we a couple of old fogies that are behind the times? Were we born in the wrong century? I often get lectured by people wanting me to change my ways and become more in tune with the times. I tend to reject their ideas, on the basis that those ideas simply don't work. Many of those same people come from broken homes, and have experienced multiple divorces in their lives.
I've always believed that sex is something that is best when it is between two people that love and care for each other. To quote Eugen Levy from American Wedding "It's called making love because you have to make love happen". The sort of sex dramatized in porn films is pure fantasy; a loving couple does not require kinky or strange acts in order to enjoy a healthy sex life. Random hookups may be exciting, but they offer nothing in terms of long term value; and they can bring about unexpected and unwanted results.
The notion that cuckolding may be healthy for some relations borders on the absurd. If a couple feels the need to add partners to their sex life, they have much bigger problems in their relationship.